Finished The House of my Mother

I have a softer opinion on Kevin now. I think he will be his biggest critic. He is capable of reflection and empathy, unlike Ruby and Jodi. I don't want him to lose access to the children and have the family be more fractured. I certainly don't want those children lost to the foster care system.

I loved the book, and it made me realize that righteous anger can be a shield that prevents us from asking uncomfortable questions, or thinking softly about people we declare bad. It doesn't mean we forget or erase the harm caused, but we open ourselves up to the potential of rehabilitation. Heavy emphasis on potential. Kevin going to prison would not be beneficial for the children. I prefer Ruby spend at minimum of 12 years with mandatory therapy, and no unsupervised access to children. Jodi can stay in prison for the rest of her sorry life.