any and every organization or time management tactic

I've heard the phrase, "I was going to ____" all to often from my N DX partner. Deadlines are missed, everything's place is apparently anywhere, lists are half made and lost, and I am tired of losing energy and money from having to make up for lost things, missed deadlines, etc.

I've tried things having a "home" (i.e. the keys live on the hook) and a physical shared calendar.

I just found this subreddit two days ago and am so relieved to have found folks who can relate.