AITAH for not taking my partner mental health seriously

My partner has been battling mental health issues for the past 6 months and i have been there with him since his first panic attack. He has been seeing a therapist on and off for about a few months now, things have gotten better but there were a few times when we were quarreling, the attack will come.

AITAH for feeling that my partner sometimes make use of his mental health to get me to cave during our arguments? He will start shaking, start dazing off into space, and even start hitting himself and when that happens i will just attend to him first. After a few of those occurrences, i'm starting to feel like he is making use of it. Whether its true that he is having those attacks, i tell myself to believe its true and that he will never do that to me. but i just cant help shaking those thoughts off... AITAH