Middle ground?

Now, I'm a Christian, and I understand that killing a baby is morally wrong. But, I value the woman's life over the baby. I believe no matter how pro choices argue, most of them do feel bad about aborting a fetus, in any shape or form, but it's necessary.

I believe that context is most important, and even if it would be hard to legally determine it, I think that women under rape, incest, health or extreme economic problems should have abortions before a certain week.

I still think it's wrong to get rid of it, but I believe the pregnant woman has a larger right to happiness, than the fetus right to live. God wouldn't want a raped woman to have to go through so much pain. Conservatives are way too strict on such issue.

But, I still believe if you went under consensual sex, and went pregnant, you should be responsible for it. You're safe, you have a partner and you should create the baby. Both sides, despite the woman having more, should have a say. I feel like people often have abortions because they "don't feel like it" is a bit too extreme in my opinion, but I don't know, my views might change.

It's like saying if a woman gives birth, but the man doesn't want the baby. He can just not give child support? No. Both sides should be held accountable. So what am I? Is this a middle ground or what? I have no clue. I have progressively changed from pro life to this stance and I do not know if people agree with this.