Lesbian loneliness and giving up..

Being a lesbian can be such a lonely experience, especially as a neurodivergent late bloomer who doesn’t have a lot of experience yet. I’m not the oldest person in the world but at 27, I’m obviously not getting any younger. I want to connect with women (including friendships) within my age range, but it hasn’t been easy to find those women. As a neurodivergent late bloomer, I can’t help but worry about my success rate (if any 😂 😂) when it comes to love because it’s really not looking good.

Due to shyness, lack of wlw in my area, and lack of pretty privilege, I didn’t get to explore my sexuality earlier in life. So now I’m left behind. It’s embarrassing when my straight friends who already found their soulmate in high school or in university ask me if I’m seeing someone yet and the answer is still no. Now I understand why some bisexual women end up staying in the hetero side of the dating world, because finding another single lesbian or queer woman to date can be hard and discouraging.

Anyways, I know this is repetitive and depressing but I just needed to get this off my chest! ✌🏾