AITA cause I didn’t want food my boyfriend ordered?

My boyfriend {28} ordered me {f25} a dish I didn’t want or asked for, I’m on a diet and he knows I have an issue when I’m not hungry I can’t shove food down my throat. He got upset I didn’t want any of it even though I told him I appreciated it but I wasn’t hungry, he told me it was disrespectful that I didn’t eat it in front of the people we were with. Now, we were at a bar , I got up to go use the bathroom and when I came back it was there. I didn’t ask for it once, nor did I tell him I was hungry. He ordered finger food for the entire table. I get he was trying to do something nice, but he knows how I am when it comes to food. So am I the asshole for not eating the food?