Amber is worse than we could imagine.
I believe it when her exes (including Lex) describe her spoiled rotten personality and her constant bickering. I believe it was most unmasked with Beck, because ALR saw Beck as beneath her. She hides it on camera, but barely. It really comes out in her DMs to ZM, what a gross narcissistic manipulator she is. It’s the fact she clearly thinks her bullshit is enough to “convince” people or get her out of her situation. But he’s not a vulnerable person like most of her choice victims.
As her hubris grows, and she sources GF material from every dark corner of the internet -it’s not like she gonna grow as a potential partner being around freaks like Emily. Maybe she thought she could manipulate Emily too. Or she actually attempted a healthy bond? Who knows. Anyway I believe they argued constantly.
Her toxicity further stunts her emotions and personality. “I want it now, my way, or nothing else” is the only think Amber really thinks. The second she gets pushback she wants out. She’s gonna get herself in a situation she is either emotionally or physically unable to get out of next. Who’s gonna bail her out?