AM is hard for guys living with their parents
I will be completing one year of arranged marriage search journey next week. The search isn't complete and is still going on.
But here's something that I found really interesting.
I was getting more matches when I was living in Hyderabad (away from my hometown and parents). I was earning, let's say XX LPA before and was working in office in Hyderabad before.
About two months back, I got a better, remote job opportunity with 1.5 * XX LPA CTC with an European-startup, which, obviously has better pay. Financially speaking and considering all the factors, it's more beneficial for me to work here, compared to living in other metro cities.
But here's the interesting part - I am getting less matches now after I've updated my biodata on matrimonial profiles than I used to before. Parent of one of the girls interested in my profile visited us, but they emphasised and asked this twice, if I have plan staying in Lucknow and not moving out. The parents of other brides, with whom my parents had initial talk over a call also ask and emphasise this point.
Is it only me who is facing this situation? Or are there any other folks going through the same? Do women these days don't like living with man's family?