Confused on what to do

30 M been talking to match for about a month. I work outside India and was visiting family in India a few weeks back and we got introduced then. We met physically at a restaurant and it was overall a good meeting. My return trip was in a week and I got busy with various things so we didn’t talk regularly after meeting. After I got back we got in touch again but haven’t talked very regularly due to our weird work schedules.

My parents raised a few concerns related to her family background and told me that the parents will try to meet if possible so that we can get assurance on those concerns and to avoid any problems between families later on. My parents talked to the match’s parents and told me that they were talking very incoherently and they did not seem proactive to know more about our families and try to meet and take the process in a positive direction. Also my mom got an impression that they weren’t really interested in sending their daughter to a different country since they got used to a lifestyle with the daughter earning well and taking care of them and they seemed to giving random reasons to not meet. Overall my parents did not get a good impression of the family background and felt like there would be lot of problems later on if things proceed.

In terms of my talking experience with the match, she seems easy to talk to but we haven’t been talking regularly due to her hectic work schedule. I don’t really feel like I can say yes or no to the match at this point as I don’t have strong feelings, but my parent’s experience is definitely very concerning for me. The match definitely expressed interest in moving abroad if things pan out, but my parents told me if the match has to pan out the parents have to agree to let go of her daughter which might not be smooth. And also the communication between parents wasn’t very smooth, and due to that friction might come between the kids in the future.

I am really confused if I should try talking more or just say no since I don’t really have strong feelings at this point.