Following yesterday’s question about where the single 40s women hang out - where are the guys?

I’m newish to Chicago, 42, hate the apps. Work in the art world so, uh, not a lot of options there for a straight(ish) single woman. I love records (used to be a DJ), dive bars, roller skating, dogs, the beach, the 90 Day Fiancé empire. No kids but I don’t mind if someone has them. I’ve tried classes, volunteering - which was of course rewarding for other reasons - but not a lot of single dudes hanging out at the community garden. Help a gal out! Divorced hipster dads where you at?

Edit: wow, thank you for the suggestions and commiseration! I have a lot to catch up on. (Guy who thought I was asking to be sent a detailed description of your dick: I do have a good therapist to recommend if you want).