How do men wanna be supported in their issues?

I have seen many feminist forum explain people how they would like if men call out other men on their behavior, they can be there for support in the issue , how they don't want them to speak on their behalf but rather be there to support cause etc .

How exactly would you like it ? Since I'm not a man , I don't know . Ex : If you make a point where other boys could have will it be seen as making it about yourself or just support.

You can specify in how it varies in workplace, home or other social settings .