Why is there such a disconnect between what men want and what women think men want?

I was having a conversation with a few female coworkers. I'm a 38 year old man. They asked me if I like natural women or women with BBLs.

I said unequivocally I like natural and in my opinion BBLs are just not it. I was told BBLs are 'natural' and that most men can't really tell the difference. I was also told that I'm unreliable because most other men they asked liked BBLs.

My question is. Who are these guys that think BBLs are better? Where do you stand? Why are so many women convinced a BBL is what most men go after? Why the disconnect?