Should we be telling men between ages of 20-30s+ who never had a girlfriend, that it's all good?

Edit: I meant men ages 25-30. I understand early 20s is still young

I understand the whole focus on your own life and happiness and improving yourself

But isn't part of mans growth is to have dating experience?

Like it teaches you many things.. 1. How to talk to girls better (because you're in a relationship) 2. Experience love and learning how to be good partner (date nights, gifts, etc) 3. Learning important communication 4. how to spot red flags or even learn more about yourself and what you don't want in a partner 5. How to get over a breakup when it happens and move on.

I'm sure there's many things but having a healthy dating life teaches men many things and can even help them in their own social and emotional development into the man they want to be in the future .

I'm sure many men are glad they got to at least experience dating and choose for themselves whether it's worth it for them or not

Honestly my life isn't bad I have decent life. But I never experienced dating during my college years or early 20s (I'm 28 now).

Now I'm stuck playing catch up and not many people are going tolerate showing men in their late 20s how to date

I don't know I just feel shitty to tell a man in my situation that it's "all good bro" and just "hit the gym". The advice just seems so simple minded to complex problems.

Like I go to the gym, and take care of myself but it doesn't get me dates. Dating is weird theres no straight forward advice to give men for that.

What I'm trying to say from all this is that I don't feel whole or complete as man. I feel like dating is trial by fire that every man should go through, at least to grow themselves.