Do you ever put the Big Light on?

My gf and I are moving in together and we are so excited.

My biggest fear right now is that I know her to be a purveyor of the Big Light - i.e. the main light in the living room.

I have grown up in a house where the big light is essentially never used, unless someone has lost or dropped something…

I’m racked with fear that I’m going to have to live in a house where the Big Light is on in the evenings!….

Are there any maniacs on here that use the Big Light? Or is it lamps all the way?…