Why aren’t the democrats leading us right now?

I'm frustrated that we don't have a top democrat standing up, willing to lead the millions of us that are outraged, heartbroken, terrified, and angry. Wouldn't it be a great thing if Kamala or Obama or someone stepped up and united us in a demonstrative way? We are all so angry but we're all representing as individuals rather than this angry mob of 70 million Americans. Am I wrong in my thinking?