How Many Times You Deliberately Fumbled A Person By Making Yourself Look Bad?

I've been on this sub for a while but I never see a post about what I did many many times.

Basically; men thought I'm having multiple affairs, flirts or even hookups because I didn't reach them out while I also gave them signs like I'm having a crush on them.

I know at least 3 men heartbroken by thinking I'm a "slut" by cheating on them while we flirt somehow.

This is the most annoying part of my problems with AvPD. I wish I could never do something like this but I feel like I'm gonna do it again.

Have you guys did something like that? If so, how did it end?