Sex repulsed vs hypersexual

Many people in this community seem to be hypersexual, I know it can go either way when traumatised but it seems like there are significantly more people with bpd who experience hypersexuality as opposed to sex repulsion. I know it can flip flop and go from one to the other but personally I’m very sex repulsed all of the time.

I could go my whole life without sex and that only changes when I have someone I REALLY like. Which state do you guys experience MOST of the time?