Did your S.O go to every appointment with you?

FTM here so everything is new. My boyfriend went with me to our first ultrasound at 8 weeks (elective not with my OB) and due to my OB being stuck in surgery my first scheduled appointment, we JUST had our first OB appointment at 14 weeks and he went with me. I’m glad he was there but it almost seemed unnecessary for him to be there. He has never complained or said he didn’t want to go but from my point of view he honestly just stood by my head while they did a Pap and measured my uterus and pelvic opening. The only thing that involved him was when they used the Doppler to hear baby’s heart beat. I just felt like he was bored even though he gladly agreed to go and expected to go to each one. I thought about telling him not to worry about leaving work for the next appointment because I feel like it’ll just be the Doppler again, and asking questions, and measuring my belly.

We agreed to each pay half of the OB bills because it’s not MY doctors visits, it’s for OUR baby we both created and he’s 100% on board and was actually his idea. So did your bfs/hisbands/ partners go to every single 4week/2week/weekly appointments?