Current dating culture is Pushing people beyond limits

Hello everyone, (38 M) here. I am new here on reddit, since few days. Coincidently came across this Bumble/Dating community. I got really chocked how people are stressed, overwhelmed, over thinking the micro- details of every single moment of thier contact with the other gender. People are losing thier own perception of themselves because of the stress and the fear of being left behind. It's a legitimate fear dears but be kind to yourselves and others as much as you can. Nothing really deserves all this amount of stress. I became more determined, the entire meaning of Dating or "finding a partner " is loosing its own meaning and its wellbeing.
I just wanted to leave this here. Good luck for everyone.