Informations for character plans

So i'm planning my first gameplay of this mod for a while and I have just bought the DLCS i was missing for it, so now I can play unlanded. As I am a fan of roleplay I'm also planning my character in advance and I was wondering if it would be possible to play an unlanded ironborn and kidnap/marry characters? I know that was possible in ck2 agot if you were landed, but with the new unlanded mechanism I tought it would be fun to play as a bastard of House Drumm and just go wild on the realm pillaging and imprisoning/marrying everyone relatives (average ironborn sanity). But I wouldnt want to risk starting a game and then realizing something isnt possible halfway when I already made the character, which is why I'm asking in advance