Have you guys ever had friends na palaging 'jowa' ang bukambibig?

Hi. For context, I've had two friends whose lives seem to revolve around whether or not they have a boyfriend/jowa. Every conversation would always be about their kausap or flings and overall just being incredibly delusional. I've done my part as a friend to not 'enable' them. Nung una, ineencourage ko pa sila. The usual na 'mag-first move ka, give it a try'. Pero as time goes on, their behavior borders on obsessive and incredibly self-gratifying. Alam niyo 'yung mag cacatch up nalang kayo pero ang topic sila at sila pa rin? Haha.

And I don't know if this is a common experience, but they're both from rich families. You can say it's inggit, but there's just this feeling whenever I talk to them about how they might not realize how incredibly lucky they are. How incredibly lucky is it that your problems are solely romantic relationships as a teenager?

It might be wrong self-assumption on my part, and I'm aware of that, but I really need to put this out there. There's just so much they can do with their lives than invest in a relationship just for the sake of having one, you know? You have the resources, the support, the aid that you need to pursue whatever it is you want to and out of everything you could do for yourself and yet you choose to invest it on men who can barely give a single fuck about you and who you are. I want to be a good friend, and I'm really trying. I'm telling them to go do something else. Live your life. Go wherever you want to go. Stop choosing to waste your time on men you want to be crazy about.

I've already cut one of them off. I'm still torn about cutting the other one just for the sake of my mental health.