Young and chronically ill

Is it just me or does anyone else notice a huge discrepancy in quality of care when you’re young and have a chronic illness vs when you’re “age appropriate” for your illness. I keep hearing my family talk about their health struggles with diabetes, cancer, chronic pain, etc. and it just feels like their doctors are bending over backward for them. They’re getting real help. And I’m over here with my dumpster fire GI tract, premature ovarian failure, and panic disorder getting fuck all in the way of care. I’m getting “you’re completely healthy,” “you’re just anxious,” “you’re too young to be having all these issues.” Ok so what? Are they just going to wait until I’m age appropriate to do anything? Are they going to let me die? You’d think I was asking for white glove treatment. I just want to find a sustainable solution that isn’t “just think positive thoughts” or “just eat healthy and exercise.” I am not functioning and I need help, why can’t I get it because I’m under the age of 50?