27 F finding it difficult to connect on dating apps

I know a lot of guys say dating apps are harder for them and that women have it easier, but that’s not how it feels for me. I’ve been struggling just to make a real connection with someone. I’ve tried almost every dating app out there, and nothing seems to work—I barely even hold a conversation with anyone. Yeah, I get some likes, but they never lead anywhere. It’s frustrating, and honestly, I’m about ready to give up on dating altogether. I refuse to pay for these apps because, let’s be real, most of them are just scams that don’t actually care if you find someone or not. Does anyone have any advice on how to navigate this mess called dating?