Did anyone else get bother by Clare’s behavior when dating Jake?

She was so entitled and whiny and made everything about her. I liked Jake and I think he’s one of those chill boyfriends who would put up with a lot of BS but Clare is so uptight. Like I’m surprised she had cancer and not a fucking stroke from all the complaining she did. Like leave your mom alone, she’s older and knew the guy first so she deserves to be with him. as someone who screw things over by worrying all the time I feel so annoyed with Clare. Plus the writers just wouldn’t let us like her for a second. Always had something to upset about, if I was her actress I would be mad about playing her.