Question for parents of little kids who found themselves in the role of "doing it all" and a partner who was blind to their privilege of actually taking time off to nap/watch TV/play video games etc etc.

Did your partner ever make the effort to step up and meet you half way? What was the outcome of the relationship?

Edit: thank you all for your responses. I understand that every relationship looks different but this is a common theme. I understand that there will be a bias towards a certain response given the sub of course. I really appreciate your insights, hindsights, and reflection on how things unfolded.