I really love magic but.

The worst part of magic is the people you need to play it with. I may need a new shop to find but I've had terrible interactions the past few weeks. People taking turns that are just so long it's almost unbearable to sit through. People dont know what their cards do or how they will interact with their other cards. People trying to fix a mistake from a turn or two ago because they didnt pay attention to their triggers. Trying to play a 4 pod and 2 people come over and guilt trip us into having one of our group leave so im stuck in an awkward 3 pod with decks balanced for 4. The ever present, "Im not a threat so dont interact with me or youre stupid or targeting me." Not the least of all the poor hygiene some people have. My love for the game is still 100% I'm just getting grinded down because of people. How have you all dealt with challenges like this? I love this game but this stuff is just dragging me down to the point I don't want to play.