Wife’s first date tonight!

After a total flake out last week, my wife will be going on her first solo date. She’s been texted with this guy for a few weeks. There are limits on the date - it won’t be sex, but it’s a big step forward. Excited and nervous at the same time. Sent me positive vibes and let me know if you are interested in how it goes for both us :)

Update:

The positive is that I was 100% comfortable with her being out. She checked in mid-date that he was funny but no sparks. I was disappointed, but it bodes well for the future that I continued to hope they would connect. We had agreed she would text me at 9 when leaving the date. At 9:10, I noticed she hadn't texted. I had a brief moment of panic, but instead of assuming something bad, I figured she must have decided to leave early. Literally 2 minutes later, the car pulls in.

Long story short, the guy had too much to drink. He was cleary very hot for her. Tried to get him to go out to karaoke with and asked if she would text me for permission. Asked if she should go back to his play ot watch Austin Powers. Playfully bit her shoulder. She would have left sooner, but had trouble getting the check.

So, yeah, the date was a disaster for her and definitely showed why I had intial concerns about non-parntered men. The silver lining, though, is that she handled it superbly and I didn't freak out at any point. We talked at the end are moving on to the next. Hopefully, this other guy won't flake out. Fingers crossed. The journey continues.