Do you feel it's difficult to find independent partners?

Lately when going on dates and seeing ladies everyone I run into is VERY dependent in some way if not many ways. For example financially dependent because they don't work or won't hold down a job for any meaningful length if time. Or very emotionally dependent. And I'm not talking wanting to spend time together regularly. I'm talking the type of women who seemingly can't function without you 24/7.

I sometimes question where are all the ladies with jobs and fulfilling hobbies & interests hiding out. Anyone else having an equally rough time finding someone that is compatible? sigh