47 but feel like I’m caught between feeling like an older millennial and and younger GenXer.

I’ve been told I look 30 (great!) but I don’t feel that young lol. When it comes to pop culture and music - I went clubbing in college and 20s and it was all what we consider “millennial” music now. But I also love the 80s and 90s as that was middle school and high school (94 HS grad) Other decades I’ll listen to here and there but a lot of my GenX friends are into 70s and I just don’t relate.

Same with fashion. I dress appropriately but young. I realize I dress more like a millennial than someone in their “late 40s” Or - more like - someone in the late 40s when I was a kid seemed reeaaaally old and I don’t feel that way at all now. And I guess bc I don’t have kids (not so much by choice but life just didn’t take me there and I didn’t want to have a kid without a partner) I feel caught between feeling like a kid myself and also feeling totally out of touch with what’s “in” lol. I don’t do TikTok, only IG and less so FB these days.

Anyways - is it just me? Am I just over here still not knowing where I belong and wasn’t really caring….until everyone started posting videos on what Boomers, GenX, Millennials and GenZ are supposed to be like?? Or does it feel like all of us late 40s GenX’ers are kinda straddling two generations and don’t fit into either?

Am I making any sense? Lol. Just a rant / musings. Wondered if anyone related to this.