Can I Get Tips? 🫣

(THIS IS TMI)

I, 15F, started dating my boyfriend, 16M, a month ago. I know I'm young and I don't plan on doing anything sexual until I'm 16 (my birthday is in March for reference) but I'm struggling with insecurities on my sister down below if you catch my drift. I'm very clean and hardly smell so I'm not worried about any odor but I can't help but feel like she's ugly. I'm not worried about the pubic area being darker but I want my labias to be evener and whatnot :/ Theres also a lot of scars from ingrown hairs + other things and I've tried almost everything I can think of. Glycolic toners to even out the skintone and fix the texture, bleaching creams for sensitive areas, and recently I've started using PanOxyl 10% Benzoyl Peroxide because I know it has a somewhat strong lightening effect as well? (correct me if i'm wrong) I guess I'm just wondering if any women (or even men) who are reading this have any advice for 1) Anything that may reduce ingrown hairs and 2) Anything that will help with brightening + evening the skin there. I exfoliate regularly so I know it's not a lack of that.

Not too sure if this is relevant or not but I'm a black woman so do what you will with that information lol.

Also not that I think anyone thought this but I've been trying to find ways to lighten my hooha wayyyy before I even started dating him. I just feel like the time limit is shortening and I don't want to feel insecure about it when that time comes.