Do you think female in Haryana are oppressed?

I have friends who are himachali and noticed how different women rights and freedom are there. Haryana mei they are treated so inferiorly, I can remember some instances ki mumma once told me to not go to chhat and the justification she gave me was, lugai bolengi ki inki chori toh saari haana chhtan pe firre h lol(given that I am one of the shariftest person Eva, chmli huyi hoti fer toh bera ni k hota) Or b bohot h, jyada nhi bolna kahi jao toh, logan ne b isi ae pasand aave h, they think wah kitni sharif sau ldki h, but why is it necessary I mean jiska jaisa nature h, let them express themselves, Shaadi mei b reception b dulhan agar hss ri ho, bolenge forri huyi h. Gaon mei I remember ek uncle apni wife k haath mei khaat ka ek paer rakhke sota tha Kyunki unke lagatar 3-4 ldki ho gyi thi. Auraten frustration nikalne ka object thodi h. Yeh h thoda Haryana k ldko mei maine notice kra h.

Itna drte kyu h idhar ki auraton ne khudko express krdiya toh pta ni kya hojega. Merely bache krne k liye h kya auratein. What are your thoughts, please share.