Less feminine women, what men do you attract?

As the title says, I consider myself less traditionally feminine on the feminine/masculine spectrum. I just want to feel taken care of in a relationship (and, of course, I’d reciprocate that). I’ve always dreamed of that classic cheerleader/football player romance dynamic, but I know I’m not exactly dainty in mind, body, or spirit.

I worry that I only seem to attract more feminine men, even though my type is more along the lines of a lumberjack or CEO—someone protective, confident, and traditionally “manly.”

What I’m really trying to figure out is: what kind of men tend to embody those traits (assertiveness, charisma, leadership) and how can I better connect with them? Informally said, can someone out dog me?