If you chose reconciliation after your SO had an affair
What steps were taken after you found out? What normally unreasonable requests became reasonable to ask for in order to start rebuilding trust?
Were there multiple affairs involved, and if so, how did you deal with each one?
My suspicion is eating at me, even though I can see my partner is trying harder. More engaged, more invested.
My SO and I have been working on rebuilding trust and moving forward but an ExAP continues to find ways to make contact on various platforms trying to guilt trip my SO with messages like “do you hate me” …. Like tf. 🥴
- Would you reach out to the ExAP if they continued to message or try to engage with your SO to provoke a response like that?