Was I in the wrong for questioning him?

I 18f and my so called “bf” 22m had gotten into an argument over instagram. Basically he told me he’s been too busy with family and everything to even give me just a quick second to text me he’ll be taking a break being on his phone. I wasn’t aware or alert about this and when I questioned him and kept asking for answers, he decides to insult me by calling me a little girl. Plus we’ve been on and off before about two times… and sometimes he would tell me he’s struggling with sexual urges?!! Like I feel I’m being emotionally manipulated by him and idk now I feel like the bad guy somehow?! Am I really in the wrong here?