Moms: What do you do for YOU?

I feel like my husband gets to do whatever he wants: gym, watch sports, occasionally got out to watch the game with friends, etc.

I get annoyed by this because I don’t get to do things like that. I don’t love a sports team enough to get devastated that they’re not making it to the last hurrah. I don’t have many friends that I can go out with and none live by me. My therapist tells me I need to find something for ME, but idk what I even want to do. There’s really nothing around me. I get my nails done every two weeks lol. I like to sing. I like to shop. I listen to audiobooks. I am realizing how boring I am lol.

What do you do for you that gives you fulfillment and makes you feel like you have identity?

EDIT: wow! I didn’t think I’d receive this many replies! I plan on looking through and responding to everyone soon!! Thank you for taking the time to answer my question!