My husband destroyed our garden out of jealousy

I love gardening, I've always wanted to be a homemaker that was self-sufficent, so I wanted to grow and cook my own food. As a girl I basically created a mini farm in my family's backyard, we had all kinds of fruits and vegetables year round, it was so nice. I told my husband my dream of creating something like this in our new home and he supported me.

For the first couple weeks everything was fine. It was a lot of work, I had to do a lot of digging, carry lots of bags of soil and fertilizer, build tons of raised gardening beds, etc. I did most of the work myself since I was home all day and enjoyed it all anyway. My husband also works from home, and he kept asking me when I'd be done since I would be in the garden for hours sometimes, but the early stages of gardening are the most crucial to ensure a healthy harvest. I told him once I was done all the work would be well worth it.

Some time passed and things started growing, fast growing vegetables like summer squash and radishes were almost ready to pick. Well, one day I woke up and went to the garden and it was all destroyed. Everything had been either ripped out and/or had weed killer sprayed all over (I could tell by the chemical odor). I was devastated. I went to my husband and asked "What happened to the garden?" and he acted nonchalant and simply said "Well, guess you can try again next year."

I checked our trash can and the empty bottle of weed killer was in there, so it was clearly my husband who destroyed our garden. I asked him how could he do this to me when he knows how much time and effort I spent, and he started accusing me of spending too much time gardening instead of staying indoors like a good wife should be. He said manual labor was for men and not women, I was always exhausted after gardening and he was fed up with me. He claimed I prioritized the garden over him, but I always took care of his needs, kept the house clean, cooked for him, etc so I don't know why he would say that. He told me it's just some dumb plants and to get over it and focus on a more feminine hobby like knitting.

I was absolutely heartbroken. I cried and cried. My husband later demanded intimacy from me because he said I shouldn't be tired since I'm not gardening anymore, and then got mad when I kept crying. I don't know what to do. I don't even recognize the man I'm married to anymore. Is my marriage doomed?

Edit: a lot of the comments opened my eyes to how bad my situation really is and most are telling me to leave him, but before this he was a good husband so it really pains me to have to consider this. He's never done anything like this before so I don't know if it would be permissible to leave, and I doubt anyone would believe me unfortunately