Privacy

Well. We've always been such a wild fandom. Sometimes it's beautiful. But everything has its limits. Some of us do not see the limits. It's more about Gerard but I keep seeing posts and comments about Frank and about petekey too. What I want to say. Just stop it. It's all borderline creepy. God. I don't care how attractive Gerard is. Yes, he is beautiful. It's a fact. But does it matter? We are here to discuss and to love their art. Not their beauty, their ex girlfriends, wives, rumours about their ex girlfriends and wives and so on and so forth.

They were young and they made mistakes. We all make mistakes. We all have past relationships. Some of us are lucky enough to have current relationships. We all weren't perfect all the time. So be respectful. Give the guys their privacy. They deserve it. I may be still mad at them for other reasons but I will always defend them (and defend anyone) in this.

I love how Ray was always very private. Frank social media presence isn't always the best. I don't like him in social media. But he still doesn't deserve it. It seems like Mikey knows how to keep a balance with the fans. Good for him. But it doesn't seem like something easy. And I'm still absolutely heartbroken about Gerard. It's really good for him to stay out of the social media. But he wasn't like this and that's the point. He was VERY active for years. Again, it's good for his mental health to stay out of it. But it were the fans who scared the shit out of him. It's not something normal. Reddit isn't even that bad. Instagram fan pages are pure hell. But still.

Yes, I don't think that the guys scroll Reddit and see all this posts. But it's still disrespectful and still part of the problem. Thanks for coming to my TED talk