Can we stop spreading negativity about the members?

Finding Gerard and Ray hot is one thing but posting on social media that “I feel so bad for Ray’s wife and kids since he’s the most unattractive member” it’s absolutely insane. I’m a HUGE ray fan, he might even be my favorite, but I’m tired of hearing people call him ugly and unliked. Most Gerard and Frank fans think they’re more of a piece of eye candy instead of listening to their talent. In no way shape or form is bringing Ray’s personal life (including his CHILDREN and romantic lover) and talking about how unlucky they are since Ray “isn’t attractive” is something I don’t think a true fan would do. Ray IS attractive, I have no idea how you guys don’t see that. Just because he isn’t “emo” doesn’t mean he’s not a good looking man. Please tell me you agree with this.