Does your narc hide/throw your stuff away?

Cause I swear, things go missing. Like things I use or wear… recently it was a pair of snow boots. Not where we normally keep the snow/winter items. Those were all together, including his boots… long story short I found them hidden in a storage box under a bunch of other boxes tucked away with my kids baby shoes. Honestly going crazy, like why would someone do that? I’ve found shirts and pants shoved in places, I swear he hides my phone and watches me look for it. But idk that seams a little far fetched…. Then again….