Question for girls

I am surprised at some girls...hunxan ni, sweet, sojho, empath..jo aru lai hurt garna sakdaina, who stay in long-term relationship with a guy known to be womaniser, toxic, disrespectful. Maybe, strong independent vanera present hune females ni testo relationship ma hunxan. What actually do you see in men like these and choose them over decent, soft-hearted man? Is it because you find it difficult to leave? K chai hunxa? As far as I know, warning aairako hunxa sathi bata, hearsay ni hunxan, aafulai nai disrespectful tarika le treat ni vairako hunxa, tei ni girls defend their partner and continue on. So, really wanna know the exact reason..