New mummy this is for you

New mamas here a little reminder, 6 months into being a first time mom and I wish I didn’t put sooo much pressure on myself.

Breathe, you don’t have to do everything. Enjoy the little moments with Bub, look into their eyes, smell them, kiss those little fingers and whisper how much you love them. no need to rush into a routine or panic if Bub isn’t on a schedule. They don’t need to be neither do you, not for right now. Hugs hugs hugs. You got this pretty lady, you’re amazing I wish I could hug me 6 months ago. Everyday will fall into place, it’s ok to start some mornings earlier than others, and sleep later than other nights, it’s ok to nap when Bub naps, it’s ok to have dirty laundry and dishes. It’s ok to wash your hair and put some moisturiser on, it’s ok to walk outside barefoot and breathe. You’re incredible. This is your journey don’t let the internet or others tell you how it should be, you make the rules and the weeks go by. Don’t do your head in with too much research, choose 1-3 reliable sources and use your own maternal instincts. You are beautiful.