Do you think people have dad bods all wrong?

I've noticed in the media and on the internet lately That it seems people romanticize the "dad bod" male figure but when they show examples i see them pointing to power lifters (big but with semi abs, toned chest and shoulders etc..) and less to actual chubbier guys like most dads trend to be (stockier, bigger gut less defined muscles) think tom stoltman vs homer simpson. Am i wrong in saying people have it all wrong?