Ayoko nang tanggapin ang kapatid ko sa bahay ko

(This was original posted in another place but it was pointed out to me na ako yung gago because alam ko naman daw na hindi ako yung gago and that I should post it here instead)

I (32F) had been my family's provider for more than half a decade. My sibling (24M) moved out last year and has been living with her gf. Pero everytime may away or tampuhan sila, magpapasundo sya. The first few times it was okay, hindi ko alam ang reason, I thought it was because they were in the middle of sorting their housing pero ngayon settled na sila sa bahay nila yet it would be the same thing. Magpapasundo, uuwi, magpapasundo.

The problem is he would stay here for sometime but wont contribute anything outside of his portion of power bill (he has a computer set he would haul along everytime) pero hanggang doon na lang. He would deplete our stock, he wuld eat our prepped meals tapos papalitan nya ng canned foods and pancit canton. He would go thru our pantry supply but would only buy things for himself. He doesnt do house chores. We have to pick up after him pa. I got so exasperated over it and the last time he asked me to pick him up sabi ko "ayoko, you dont contribute here and you go thru our food like it's nothing" sabi nya "I will buy things, magccontribute ako" but it never happened. He left pa with his portion of his bill unpaid.

Now, he's asking me pick him up again but it has fallen on deaf ears na. Ayoko na. Sawa na ko. I feel like a bad older sister for ignoring his plea but Im so tired of him.

That was hours ago.

I found out not too long ago na lumayas sya sa bahay nila ng girlfriend nya and my father is guiltying me baka kung ano raw mangyari sa kapatid ko.