Urinary incontinence - what pads are we using?

I'm already on HRT and other treatment advice from doctor so not looking for that.

What I am asking about is what products are available and what you think of them. Particularly for early, light, occasional pee leaks. I'm pretty good about controlling it when I feel a cough or sneeze coming but there's occasional tiny accidents. Less than a pantiliner would hold but those aren't really designed for watery liquid.... what should l try?

I have weird trauma from my mother using full size huge crinkly powdery pillowy MAXI pads during her early incontinence because she didn't want to buy the more appropriate things and now i'm ready to consider them