Telling my dad I’m pregnant

I (26F, 400lbs) am 9 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been together for 4 years now, married for one, and had been trying for a baby since June 2022.

We’re going to a family reunion this weekend where I’ll see my dad for the first time since October.

When I last saw my dad, we got into a heated argument where he made me feel ashamed for my weight (and I’ve gained 15lbs since I last saw him) and made a comment about how if I get pregnant I’ll end up on a tv show, you know, my 600lb life, and even told me I should get back on birth control until I lose weight.

Other than the topic of my weight, we get along pretty well, and I’m hopeful me telling him I’m pregnant will go well, but I’m still worried about telling him.

I got a whiskey glass made saying ‘Dad est 1992, Papa est 2024’ and I put a onesie in it that says ‘Baby -Last Name- December 2024’, and I’m giving him the gift under the guise of an early Father’s Day present

This will be his first grandchild and I’m hoping he reacts positively when I tell him