My(M21) Gf(F21) is going to be in a romantic Bollywood music video reel with another guy and I’m feeling overly jealous about it.

Me(M21) and my Gf(F21) have been together for almost 1.5years. I’m a student and she’s working. She also does content creation on the side and has a few thousand followers. I’m ver overprotective and can easily get jealous. Last year a reel of hers blew up and she got a lot of male attention. I got so jealous at the comments complimenting her. But since then I’ve grown and it doesn’t bother me anymore because I it will happen and I trust her completely.

A few days ago she brought up that an old friend wants to shoot a Bollywood music video reel with her and it would involve another guy. I said no before she could finish her sentence. We argued for a bit but eventually talked it out and even I explained my feelings and I can’t control her. If one day in the future she gets to be in a big ad where its portrays a couple then I can’t say no. I told her to do the shoot and i felt better about it once we talked but now I’m badle where I started

The shoot is tomorrow and frankly it’s been on my mind 24/7 from the minute I wake up to the moment I sleep. Even tho it’s acting and it’s just a reel it feels very real to me and I can’t stand it. I’m overly jealous and I don’t know how to move forward. I’m dreading the day and can’t imagine how I will get through it. To see another man fix her hair or her lay on his shoulder. It may seem small but it’s eating me up and I don’t know what to do.

How do I overcome these feelings? I’m not afraid that anything will happen between them since I trust her completely. It’s the whole reel that feels completely real to me. I want to work on being more secure in the relationship.