SF Neighborhood Recommendations

I’m looking to move to San Francisco and would love some recommendations on which neighborhoods to look in. I tend to get overstimulated by cities and would love to be in a more quiet neighborhood but my roommate wants to have super easy access to the more vibrant, happening areas like the Mission etc.

Some things we would love in a neighborhood: - great access to public transport - short commute to more central areas - quieter streets - green spaces and/or tree lined streets - easier parking - walkable neighborhood coffee shops/breweries/restaurants