Working with SOME white women is so exhausting
So just as a disclaimer, some white women are really cool and great but unfortunately some are not like that.
My working experiences with white women has been horrible so far tbh. I think some of them are so sneaky and catty. Like they will be so nice to your face but then talk $hit behind your back and do shady things behind your back. Also, I feel like when you get promoted or something good in general happens to you as a WOC, my white women colleagues never even congratulate me and instead make me question whether I actually deserve that good thing (promotion, going to grad school, romance) ? Also, some of them seem so competitive and jealous for some reason. Like the other WOC that I work with are super supportive and nice and they seem genuine, but some of the white women (especially white women in management positions) are just so mean and aggressive sometimes. Does any other brown girl have a similar experience working with white women?
Like these same white women will be so nice to the brown male doctors but they will be so rude and disrespectful to brown female healthcare workers.
Don't get me wrong, there are horrible women and people in every single race ( trust me I know) but something about working with white women it feels like no matter how hard I work, im never appreciated for my work and it seems like it's never enough, whereas my white coworkers (especially female ) get praised for doing the bare minimum.
I feel like I also find it hard to befriend most white women in general as well. IDK why