Our delusion with passing…

Most of us do not actually pass, and I think in 2025 with doll culture becoming more glamorized on apps like TikTok, we conflate aesthetic beauty with passibility.

Passing doesn’t mean you look “cunt” after a 3 hour getting ready session with hair extensions, pounds of makeup, 6 inch stiletto nails, and a full body care routine. Or looking cis in 6 pictures on a dating profile…

Passing means you look and sound like a cis woman from all angles 360, your body right out of the shower naked with your hair wet, or how you look like when you get right out of bed in the morning and throw on sweats and a hoodie.

Until we get at least close to this point, a straight man is not going to accept us and we will be largely confined to chasers.

In fact I think the only true passing woman I’ve seen who transitioned after natal male puberty is Carmen Carrera

P.S. I’ve met THE blaire white in person on her tour and she, while very aesthetically pretty, MAJORLY FAILED at passing. Her gait was completely male, complete male hip to shoulder ratio, vocal fry gay male voice, and disproportionate facial features. This is her after god knows how many surgeries