Swinger game

Are there any apps or games that allow each participant in a swap or threesome to separately answer boundary questions and the app collates the information and creates a game? For example, one player may not like to give or receive rim, another only lkes to receive and the other two are good with both. The app would not require anyone to do anything outside of their boundaries. Spicer app has these features but only for a couple. Each partner answers, yes no or maybe.